Where do i begin.
Well i'm 34 male i am currently living with someone an have been for the last 4yrs now we have a child together now 3, but i have not claimed any benifits no work no tax payments no housing benifits, nothing over the last 4yrs, so i am not ever registered as living here, i also have nothing, no i.d i really only have the clothes on my back.
Now for the 1st time in all these yrs she has had to let the council no that our little one is not on her housing benifit form, now they would like his birth certificate which has my name on etc, now obviously they will want to no about me, this is going to cause a problem i imagine? we really dnt no, but i do no that i read that i cant claim a benifit or anything cause i havent paid tax in 4yrs.
I dnt want my partner to get into trouble, an at the mo feel a cliff dive is a way out of troubles for us, my partner btw has a disabled child that we care for constantly, so all in the mix all is very bad, i basically fell in love moved in with the clothes on my back & never returned back to my old life etc.
how can i make this right with as little impact as possible, i no this sounds bad & it is, but i dnt no how to start my life again, esspecially since i have nothing in my life anymore to say i'm me, i only "know" my ni number thats it..
Well i'm 34 male i am currently living with someone an have been for the last 4yrs now we have a child together now 3, but i have not claimed any benifits no work no tax payments no housing benifits, nothing over the last 4yrs, so i am not ever registered as living here, i also have nothing, no i.d i really only have the clothes on my back.
Now for the 1st time in all these yrs she has had to let the council no that our little one is not on her housing benifit form, now they would like his birth certificate which has my name on etc, now obviously they will want to no about me, this is going to cause a problem i imagine? we really dnt no, but i do no that i read that i cant claim a benifit or anything cause i havent paid tax in 4yrs.
I dnt want my partner to get into trouble, an at the mo feel a cliff dive is a way out of troubles for us, my partner btw has a disabled child that we care for constantly, so all in the mix all is very bad, i basically fell in love moved in with the clothes on my back & never returned back to my old life etc.
how can i make this right with as little impact as possible, i no this sounds bad & it is, but i dnt no how to start my life again, esspecially since i have nothing in my life anymore to say i'm me, i only "know" my ni number thats it..